Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Just One of Those Days
I know that I am not the only one out there who has had "One of Those Days", and I know that I am not the last to have them. Today was just my turn. It started out great and I am sure that it will end great (going to bed). I guess what has gotten me down is to see my husb dealing with a lot right now. He has so much on his plate right now and I am completely helpless. That's right, his wife...for better or worse...is helpless. It's hard to see one of my family members have so much to tend to and worry about and I can't do much to help. The kids and I sat down and talked about ways that we can help Dad feel happy and at peace when he is home with us. Of course no whining was first on our list of ways to help, we also thought of no TV, no fighting, saying prayers for him, giving him hugs, singing songs to him and the list went on and on. Well, our first attempt didn't go as I had imagined, but the kids are great and will keep trying. Dad got home late from work, hugged the kids and me, settled a fight between the two small genders of the home, made two or three phone calls, changed his clothes, hugged the kids goodbye and was out the door-20 minutes tops. No dinner, no relaxing on the couch or even sitting down for that matter, no reading his paper (his favorite thing to do), no playing with the kids or hearing their stories. However, one thing that I do KNOW is that when we are on the Lord's errand we are entitled to His help. I know Jason isn't completely alone in dealing with this load. He has a greater helper than I could ever be. Jason knows this and for that I know we, or should I say that he will make it through. We are grateful for the experiences the Lord gives us to grow, learn, teach and help others. We certainly have our "days" around here, but they don't last long because somewhere in the middle of them we stop and realize that really, we have been blessed. Thanks for being my listening ears. I hope I haven't come across as complaining or murmuring. I just needed a friend or two to express some feelings and I am glad that you are there to listen. Good night. Tomorrow is a new day!
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8 comments:
Thanks for reminding me that serving the Lord is important, and that Praying for each other is important. I love the things you do with your kids - I need to do more of that with mine. Talking to each other about ways to help another member of our family is so important! I think sometimes I just let days go by without putting any real thought or structure into what Kapria, Mila, and I do.
Now I'm rambling. You are a good friend and I admire you so much. That's basically what I wanted to say.
Come visit us any time if you need to get out. We always love our time with you!
PS. I'm sorry you miss your husband. That's not a bad thing to say. It's hard being home all day and then hoping for some family time with him and not getting it. Blessings come, but often they require so much sacrifice. I think I'm realizing that I don't sacrifice enough. I've been kind of selfish. You are such an example to me of selfLESSness.
And shoot. I'm rambling again...
I think you have it all figured out Tan. What I got from your blog is that we need to enjoy every minute of every day with those we love. It seems like life is trying to keep our sweet husbands happy and supported in every way we can (it's just our job as wives I think). The Lord really is there to carry us through - the hard part about that is truly letting him do it. Thanks for your blog, Love ya! Lis
Tan you're awesome! Your great attitude will be a wonderful help to your husband, he's lucky to have you as a wife to stand by him through this experience :)
I know we haven't seen each other forever but it sounds to me like you are an awesome wife and mother. Keep it up, I know you will be blessed.
Tan, I love your blog. I haven't read blogs for about a month now. You are a wonderful daughter, wife, mother, and friend. When Jason comes home from a hectic night just be a good listener and continue to invite the spirit into your home, because I am sure that will be his salvation lots of the time. Bishops have a big responsibility, so it is nice for them to come home to a loving home where there is peace and harmony. We love you. Mom
There is a reason that your hubby is the bishop and you are a bishop's wife. Great insight. I think you are a great mom teaching the kids at such a young age how important the Lord's work is and supporting Jas in his calling and praying for him...how awesome is that!
I didn't get murmuring out of it at all either. I think you handled it all well.
You are a definite spritual strenght for me. What a blessing to have your husband a bishop, and that the lord chose you both to be the Father and Mother of your ward.
I am sure things will get easier as time goes on
Liz
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